Tuesday, March 31, 2009

So what is New...

We have a few new things that we are dealing with these days. First things first loan docs where signed on Friday, and hopefully; cross your fingers, pray, wish and hope that it closes it on time. I am stressing about this a bit since it’s the end of the month and so the lender said that funding will happen after the first. But it gets tricking, cause funding on a Friday means we will have to pay a bunch money to record on a Monday. (Ventura county charges you 3 days of interest to record on a Monday or a day after holiday) But I really want it to close on Thursday since the movers will not deliver it on the weekend, and I don’t want to wait until Tuesday or Wednesday to have my stuff. BLAH BLAH BLAH, actually I am tired of thinking about it.

The next new thing is that Noah will now have to have a MRI before the eye surgery. They are afraid of neurological issues and or a cyst that is creating or contributing to the eye issues. So that was a bit nerve racking for me today. I am the type of person that needs to plan and prepare for news like that. When the dr told me that was the next step I wanted to cry. I didn’t even get to the car before I was on the phone with John, my mom, and then John’s mom. John’s mom is probably going to come down to help me out, since John will be busy either in Mississippi or just starting work. Neither thing will be painful or invasive but it will be more for my peace of mind and sanity really than anything else.

The last thing is a cool thing. A lady in our ward, whose hubby is in Afghanistan, was out of town this last weekend until Tuesday. So she asked if we wanted to stay at her house until escrow closes. We were so ready to check out of that hotel. The other cool thing is that she has a son that is just a few months younger than Isaac, so Isaac is just LoViNg a playmate this week. So we are here for the time being. Which is another reason that I don’t want the house to take too long, I don't wanting to over stay our welcome.

Friday, March 20, 2009

FINALLY...

the videos and pictures you have all been waiting for...

I had to break the video up, so I did it by floors. Made the most sense. But first this is the front and the side of the house. We have a corner lot so we do have a slightly bigger yard then others, not that the whole thing is that larger, but hey every foot counts. The HOA says that we can't not for any reason change the landscaping, well I hate mine, so I am going to join the board and change that rule. HEHEHE. The bushes are ugly, and non functional. And that TREE!! What were they thinking. So good-bye bushes and tree, hello nice lush green grass.


Also some humorous stories from today. I got there a few minutes before our realtor so I was poking my head around, and as I was doing so I could hear talking. So I poked my head of my soon to be fence, and there was a man in my soon to be yard. With papers spread out all over my trash cans. Then when I asked who he was he said that he was the neighbor, and in between the two houses was the only place he could get internet. Well mister nice neighbor find some other place to get your internet fix from. Cause that is my soon to be trash can, in my soon to be yard.

Then as I was waiting for our realtor to finish some paper work on the house I was hanging out waiting, looking around the kitchen. And I decided to play with the alarm stuff. WHOOPS!! I pushed a button then it beeped and asked for my code. AAAAHHHH! I don't have one, then it started beeping some more, and the motion sensor light came on. Beep, Beep, Beep!! Then we were still, waiting. Then we moved and a loud siren went off. We left the house and stood outside, called the seller, and informed him, he called the alarm company to get it all taken care of, but still. Whoops!! I can see it now, the high tech alarm is too much for us, and the police get called out. HEHE!!

Ok anyway here is the house you have all been waiting for


First Floor click here

Second Floor click here

Third Floor click here

Thursday, March 19, 2009

An All Around Update

So we have done nothing super exciting that deserves one post, but we have lots going on....

Our house is still in escrow, although things are on schedule, I feel as if it has been months since the offer was accepted by both parties, and the house went into escrow. We are nearing the end though, appraisal has been finished, and the underwriter is working on loan docs for us to sign so any day now we will sign those, and the end will be in sight. YEAH! Cause living in a one room, with a small bathroom, hotel is getting quite annoying and cramped. One day I will take a picture of what it looks like around here when it comes nap time or bedtime. We have tents set up every where so kids can sleep and the world not end. Also some of you maybe dieing to see the house, well tomorrow I am going to make a new video, cut into smaller sections, in hopes to get it uploaded. So look for that.

Isaac is doing great considering, well considering he is Isaac. He loves that we have cable here, and that he gets to watch TV more than, well I would admit. We do try to go to the park, but it is hard since John generally has the car. One day we did decide to walk to the park, but that ended with Isaac punching a kid square in the nose three times, before I could haul him out of there so fast. This was hard by the way, I was pushing Noah in the stroller, with Isaac potato sacked over my shoulder, as he was kicking and screaming I play park. It was very embarrassing. I thought someone might think I was kidnapping him. But he is learning lots of new things. Since Noah goes to bed, and nap about an hour before he does we sit down with flash cards. He now knows a square, circle, triangle, and a star. And today, it was beyond what I thought he could do, but he made a triangle and circle with toys on the floor. And then told me look triangle, circle. WOW!! Along with red, (every other color is green-blue or green-yellow, go figure??) He can now also identify every picture on the front of the ABC flash cards that we bought. I figured it might be easier for him if I said Apple begins with A. He can also count out 10 things. He can't just count to 10, but because of a wonderful book my mother-in-law gave me he can count 10 things, and he loves to do it.

Noah is almost crawling. I have seen him hit stages that I NEVER saw Isaac do, since Isaac sorta crawled for a month, I take that as a good sign that crawling is just around the corner. I always joked that he would probably learn to crawl in the hotel and think that joke might actually come true. As many of you may have noticed in pictures, he has some crossed-eyes going on. Well we talked to his DR about this when we had his 6 month check-up and she sent us to the Eye DR. We saw him today, and I am very glad of a couple of things: 1. Good insurance that is going to pay for the surgery that he is likely to have, and 2. my sister bracing me for the fact that he might have to have surgery. The idea of surgery never even crossed my mind, glasses yes, eye exercises yes, but surgery no way, until Karen mentioned that, that is what her daughter needed to correct a similar issue. We have a meeting with the surgeon that will perform the surgery if he thinks it is needed on Mar 31st. The Dr we saw today, an old guy, very funny, cute old guy (in the way old people are cute) said that he would do surgery, but he is too old to operate anymore, so this Dr would do it, but he doesn't operate on any one until he sees them and says yes they need surgery. So after that consultation we will know if and when it will happen. The idea of surgery on my little baby kinda scares me. Putting anyone under is scary, but a 7 month old? The Eye Dr today said they did this surgery on babies as young as 2 weeks old 30+ years ago when he did surgery. So I guess many have gone before Noah and many will go after him, but WOW!! Still scares me!

John is doing well in his class. But he is still studying from dawn til dusk these days. Which makes for very lonely nights with the computer. I miss him terribly, and he is in the same room as me. HEHE!! Because I am bored, cabin fevered, and lonely I plan lots of trips to see that family that is so close. We just went and visited my sister and will visit my grandparents this weekend. John has a test every Monday or Tuesday so that makes the days leading up to those days very stressful for everyone, so it is better for us to leave him, so the kids don't make too much noise, or I am not too much of a distraction.

Well until next time, I hope you are all well and happy. I miss you all so much. I hope that WA, OR, HI, and other parts of the world are treating you all well.

Monday, March 9, 2009

I CAN!!

So after my disastrous trip out with both boys oh so many months ago, (remember the one with walmart, the lost ID, grocery shopping and coming home, 6 hrs later, falling asleep before putting all the food away.) I have not ventured out much with both boys by myself, well actually I never did in Hawaii again, it gave me anxiety to me honestly. But since our time here at the hotel I have begun to do it more and more. And I am learning that I CAN do it. It helps tremendously that Noah is alot older, and can sit in the cart at the stores. And that Isaac amazing has grown up some. Like the other day we walked to the store and he walked and LISTENED!! WOW!! I whole new Isaac. So today I took both kids to the grocery store all by myself. It was actually kinda funny since I got one of those carts that are a rocket, Isaac was so excited that he got to steer, but was not excited that Noah was excited to sit next to him. All I heard the entire time, "Mama, NOAH!!" Noah was touching him, leaning on him and even took his apple. (Isaac had picked up as we were in the produce area, without my knowledge, and tried to eat.) But the thing that helps the most, not having an hour roundtrip drive to the store. It was so nice to feed Noah before we went, get Isaac a snack, and a drink and be on our way. I was able to get all the shopping done without needing to stop to feed Noah. Which was always the hardest part to be honest. Isaac always wants/needs something when I am feeding Noah, then everyone starts crying, and I start feeling the anxiety creep in. (Crying is so hard for me, I feel like I am failing at being a Mom). See the thing is after that frightful day oh so long ago, John did all the shopping for the house. And as we were preparing to leave Hawaii, I would tell some people that I was terrified from John to go to school in Mississippi next month, cause guaranteed I would need to do some shopping in the 25 days that he is gone. But now I have a renewed confidences that I CAN do this. I CAN take both kids to the store and be successful!! This post might seem silly to some of you that have like 500 kids, and do it all the time. But today as I returned from my confidence boosting grocery shopping trip I began to wonder what else I put on hold for fear of failing or feel as if I failed. So I decided that I am going to reevaluate what my goals are and where I am going and doing with my life. Because I now know I CAN do anything...ok maybe not everything yet, but I know I can move forward with life at this time because I CAN and so can you!!

Friday, March 6, 2009

Happy 2nd 25th Birthday

So today I turned 25 for the second time. Ever since I turned 20 (oh so long ago) I have a hard time getting "older". (**Disclaimer: others that are older then I am, I strangely don't think you are old at all**) So this year I celebrated my 25th Birthday for the second time. (I made a decision this year, I AM NOT GETTING ANY OLDER STOMP STOMP STOMP!!!) It has been a wonderful day though. John loves and spoils me so much. HE made me breakfast in bed from Denny's. (Hey give him a break we do live in a hotel :) ) And tryed to take me to my favorite restaurant, but it was a 45-60 min wait, and with two kids, not going to happen. But we did go to TGI Friday's and we remember why we don't go there. Then he bought a cake and sang Happy Birthday to me. He also bought me wonderful gifts, always nice to be showered with gifts. He got me Punch! Home and Landscape Design software, which I am so excited about, because I now can plan how our new home will look, where the couches, beds, and tables will go along with the color of the walls. I had been trying to find a free thing online with all those features, but I had no such luck. So John surprised me and bought me one YEAH!! Also a 100,000 computer games, which is something that I normally wouldn't not play that much, I normally have way too much stuff to do, but being in the hotel with quiet hours after 8pm (since Isaac sleeps not 4 feet from us) and John studies from dawn to dusk, I find myself quite bored. So it will be well used these next few weeks. Also (I know there's more!!) He bought me this...

My friend Whitney has a similar one, that I was telling John I "needed" cause it has so many practical uses (lazy susan type server with bowls) and Whitney and her sister-in-law were helping me in the persuasion, but John kept telling me no, not until pampered chef sells one. (Since I sell PC, I am not allowed to buy any kitchen stuff unless PC sells it.) But anyway when he was at Costco buying me something else he saw this at 75% off. I guess the bottom has a chip in it. Well guess what I couldn't see it when I looked. So I am so excited to serve someone on it. Taco Salad, Tostada, Salad, Dinner anyone?
And last but not least, this wonderful pack of card stock that Costco was selling, and I told John I "needed" it cause well lets face it, a scrapbooker can never have too much paper! I love all the gifts that John got me.
He truly does spoil me. I love him so much. And I am so happy that he got on the same bus that I was on that day. And the finally called me and the rest well is history. But the card he gave me tells it best so :


From the first time we met,
Something wonderful and unique
Reached out and drew me
To you Completely
My Friend, My partner,
The Love of my Life

He truly does complete me. I miss him so much when he is not around, he is the first thought in my mind when I wake up and the last before I fall asleep, and he is truly the man of my dreams. Thank you so much John for making me feel special on my 25th birthday again!!

Sunday, March 1, 2009

Our New Ward

So today we attended our new ward. We were so excited to see who our new ward family would be that we could hardly wait. We arrived early at church, and I would probably say like 7 or 8 people came up to us and asked about us, where are you from? what brought you here? how long will you be here? were the very common questions that we answered over and over excitedly. Oh our ward is so nice, and friendly. We did get a touch of the islands as one brother stood up and said talofa! I smiled largely at the warmth that gave me. I left with 3 phone numbers, and one duplicate, that sister just really wanted to make sure I could get a hold of her. Such a cute lady. Oh it was so nice to feel so welcome, so quickly. The bishop came up to us and told us of all the fun that is in store for us in the next couple of months in activities, and such. I would say that I probably met over half the ward today. On the young couple front thou, not many. Lots of well seasoned people and some younger people with larger families (only mention that they had larger families, cause that generally means, married long, and a tad older then ourselves.) But either way a nice new welcoming ward to take us under their wings; to guide, mold and help us on our way.

Just so you know that Isaac was, well Isaac at church today. Loud in sacrament and violent in nursery. We were standing in the foyer after church talking to the bishop, and I heard the lady next to me say "kicking is not nice" I looked down to see Isaac kicking another little kid, I promptly made him apologize, and I scowled him. Then the lady said "It's OK I got to know Isaac in nursery today." Which leads me to believe that he was the same kinda Isaac that Sarah and the other nursery leaders know so well.